Our boys are now the only two children in the extended family who are attending public schools rather than private religious schools. In two weeks Conrad will be in year 6 at Hurstville South Public School and Callum in year 8 at Blakehurst High School. Both excellent schools, despite the ethnic mix that so many seem to use as an argument against public education. And as far as behaviour goes I have seen just as many anglo-saxon looking students being rude and offensive as any other ethnic group and this does not seem to be linked to socio-economic status either, contrary to folklore that it is the ‘ethnic’ ones who are a problem.

And of course a public school might have a higher percentage of difficult students due to the mere fact that they are obliged to take anyone who resides within their area. Teachers therefore need skills in dealing with students from all backgrounds unlike many of the private religious schools who teach withing their comfort zone and often their own ethnic group.

And as for morals and ethics, if people seriously believe that the average public school does not practice the same moral and ethical behaviour as religious schools then we as parents have to make an effort to defend public education. The onus is also on us parents to set an example to our children and teach good behaviour, moral and ethical values at home. The school is an extension of this and we all hope that to whatever school we send our children will support our beliefs, be it in a public or private school. And it is high time that the message got out that religious education or religious private schools are not an assured pathway to a good moral society. Only good education, tolerance and good societal values are the key and we should fight the perpetuating  myth that religious schools (of any denomination) have better values, because it is attitudes like these create a schism without being based in fact.

Thou must use ‘how are you’ even though not wanting to know the answer at all

Thou must  not discuss  or question the Judeo-Christian deity

Thou must not ask personal questions

Thou must get your information and values from shock jocks, commercial Television … and Kyle Sandilands.

Thou must not express worries, fears or concerns of any kind

Thou must always agree that Australia is the best country in the world

Thou must deny that there is a class system and always state that we are all equal.

Thou must learn that the term “Aussie battler” only applies to the lower middle class and not to the dispossed, to the poor or unemployed single parents – They are bludgers.

Thou must call atheletes heroes and politicians bastards.

Thou must use one liners and jokes when intending to hurt, upset or abuse someone verbally.